A few words on what if this, what if that ..
Do you remember the last time when you regretted bitterly on something bad that happened to you? Do you remember the morning you woke up and was thankful exactly this thing changed you and your life? Did you feel regret then? I know the answer – no. Why?
It took me quite a long time to learn and get used to the idea that life is not an agenda, neither it is a plan, life is a journey, an adventure we all take the moment we are born. As such we should live it as if we are really on our lifetime journey.
So do not spend your precious time and energy on bad thoughts. Instead smile and move on.
Do not forget to love, respect and be grateful. Love and respect your loved ones, your life and yourselves.
What if this is the last day of your life? What if these are the last hours of your life? What if the clock is counting down the minutes? Would you complain and poison your mind with regret?
Life is too short to be anything but happy, so stop crying over the spilt milk, instead learn your lesson and show them all what you can 🙂
I think we are all here on the planet they call Earth to be good, caring and to love with all our hearts. If you feel this way and are surrounded by the opposite kind of people, then do not fell into despair but clean up your life as if you have decided to clean up the mess at home. Make friends with your kind of people.
Have you heard the saying “We are what our friends are”? It is so damn true. So get rid of the inappropriate company and take the new direction in your life. It is never too late to change the train and fill your life with love.
Do not feel sorry for the people you meet and leave. They come into our lives to teach us a particular lesson and they leave when they have nothing to offer us. In fact, they have always been incapable of offering us anything but self-awareness we deserve something much much better and true.
Forget about them the moment you show them the door as you forget what you have eaten 3 weeks ago for lunch. But remember what you have realized during their stay and do not open the door for such persons never ever again. Because you could delude yourself they do not affect you, but one rainy day you will realize you are becoming exactly the same kind of evil.
Promise yourself to let only love and goodness when they knock on your door late at night and welcome them, since they come only when we are ready to lead an honorable way of life.
P.S. The picture to this post was made by me on a very early morning, travelling from my hometown to Sofia. I would never forget how the guy sitting next to me was complaining how he hated getting up early in morning and how could they set such early flights. Then I looked at him and asked “What if this is your only chance to see the beautiful sunrise up in the sky?” He gaped and excused and did not take his eyes off the window during the whole trip.. After landing, he shook hands with me and said “Thank you!”.